If you're talking to a girl you find attractive and she tells you that she's got a boyfriend, you basically have two choices. You can either say "Nice to meet you, and Good-Bye" or you can carry on chatting to her because you still want to seduce her anyway. Now, I'm going to leave that "moral judgement" up to you. What I WILL show you in this article is what to say and do, to have the best chance of success in seducing herIF you make the choice to go ahead and do so.

You see, usually when a girl meets a guy who is good at seduction, she'll subconsciously find him attractive on at least a basic, primal level because physical or sexual attraction is an automatic impulse that we, as animals cannot control. But as you probably guessed, the fact that she's drawn to him doesn't mean that she'll jump straight into bed with him. Her commitment to her boyfriend is THE conscious factor which in this case overrides her physical attraction to the man.

Now, in the past, I used to believe that once a girl said to a guy "I've got a boyfriend", that meant that "Mr Pick-Up Artist" had no chance of sleeping with her or stealing her from the boyfriend. Now that I have the benefit of a few years' experience as a pick up artist, I see things very differently indeed. Anything can happen if you know how female psychology works.

The first thing to note here is that when she says to a guy she just met, especially very early on in the interaction, "I have a boyfriend, you know" or even refers to her boyfriend within a story she's telling, she's subconsciously trying to remove from herself any guilt she might feel later if she gets seduced and ends up sleeping with him later.

Most women NEVER like to take responsibility for sex or admit openly that they get the impulse sometimes to have a meaningless fling just like men. But the simple fact of human life is that they do enjoy sex, and yes, sometimes, sex with no strings attached. They do however, have a hard time admitting this, even to themselves.

So, how does this apply to an actual seduction. Well, the reason a girl mentions her boyfriend to a guy is so that if she ends up sleeping with him, she can justify deep down to herself that it wasn't really her fault, she'll be able to say to herself "Well, I told him about my boyfriend but he still talked me into it." So if you bumped into a girl you liked who said she had a boyfriend, instead of thinking you've got no chance at all, you can see it for what it is, which is that if you play your cards right you could still get what you want.

So what you do is this: as soon as she tells you "I've got a boyfriend" say something like this "I've only just met you and you're already telling me your problems and life history. I'm impressed with your honesty. But I have to tell you that I do usually charge by the hour for listening to women's relationship stories. So where's my money? I take cash, Master-card or Visa." At this point she might crack up laughing.

You then pretend she never mentioned the boyfriend and just carry on talking to her. It's that simple, you never refer to the subject again. You'll be surprised when in some cases you end up in bed with her and she says later, after the event, "I can't believe I just did that, I don't usually do this with guys I just met" or "I've never cheated on my boyfriend before." She might not be lying here. Remember, women will not go out consciously planning to cheat on their partners, but it is a biological fact that physical attraction with an alpha attractive guy the right situations or circumstances can easily lead a woman to cheat on their boyfriend.

Now, the more she loves her boyfriend and the stronger her relationship with him is in the first place, the less likely she'll be to give in to her physical attraction for somebody else. So for all you "Casanovas" out there who might want to carry on seducing a girl in a relationship, you might justify your actions by saying "well if she really had a solid relationship with the guy and loved him, she wouldn't sleep with me anyway." I'll leave you to deal with your conscience on that one.

Kenneth Oboh

Ken Oboh, (also known as I-Casanova), is a self confessed "modern day" Casanova who teaches men of all ages how to successfully meet, attract, date and seduce women.

His extensive experience in meeting and dating hundreds of women, from almost every country and background, forms the basis for all that he teaches to men looking to master the art of seducing women.

Ken Oboh is the author of the I-Casanova "forbidden secrets" of seduction, the hugely popular eBook which contains hundreds of Seduction techniques on attracting women.

Ken's incredible insight into female psychology and his expert guidance on relationships is crucial to all men in today's sexually dynamic society.